Thursday, August 19, 2004
A Firend Decision and my thousands of Questions
He had one of those amazingly charming look that made it the hardest thing not to stare at him, still he was well mannered. The way he smiled, walked was very noble. He grows up in a respectful ancient family who had their own family crest and Motto.
He had a great memory which might cause by all those years he studied hard, or by plenty of books he used to read.
When he did his undergrad he took couple of years off to work and discover the world,
did he find out what he likes? Did he follow his heart?
I remember I asked that question when he was doing master, he replied: Some times what you are studying as a major at school might not be interesting but what u can do with that knowledge or money might be joyful.
He started his doctorate; he studied hard for 2 years.
Then he quite, just at the middle of his phd program. Now he is working in Gap as part time sales person.
……
I was so shocked by this news.
Is it me who went wrong? Did I make an idol out of him?
Or Under that Aristocratic amazingly beautiful face there was no self confidence that would let him see what others could see in him?
Or is it just a simple equation:
If you don’t have enough motivation and if u ONLY decide with your mind then you might quit when difficulty arise.
Or is it the problem of wishes and goals? If we don’t have any goals regardless how hard we tried, the results won’t be meaningful.
Or if we have only one goal in our life our self conscious would try hard not to reach it cause otherwise our life would be meaningless. ( like the Muslim guy in Alchemist, who his only wish was to be a pilgrim to Mecca, and he never did it)
Or Am I thinking so typical Iranian: Just because some one can have a doctorate degree in only 2 years doesn’t mean he can’t drop every thing and work in Gap or Mc. Donald?
Comments-[ comments.]
He had one of those amazingly charming look that made it the hardest thing not to stare at him, still he was well mannered. The way he smiled, walked was very noble. He grows up in a respectful ancient family who had their own family crest and Motto.
He had a great memory which might cause by all those years he studied hard, or by plenty of books he used to read.
When he did his undergrad he took couple of years off to work and discover the world,
did he find out what he likes? Did he follow his heart?
I remember I asked that question when he was doing master, he replied: Some times what you are studying as a major at school might not be interesting but what u can do with that knowledge or money might be joyful.
He started his doctorate; he studied hard for 2 years.
Then he quite, just at the middle of his phd program. Now he is working in Gap as part time sales person.
……
I was so shocked by this news.
Is it me who went wrong? Did I make an idol out of him?
Or Under that Aristocratic amazingly beautiful face there was no self confidence that would let him see what others could see in him?
Or is it just a simple equation:
If you don’t have enough motivation and if u ONLY decide with your mind then you might quit when difficulty arise.
Or is it the problem of wishes and goals? If we don’t have any goals regardless how hard we tried, the results won’t be meaningful.
Or if we have only one goal in our life our self conscious would try hard not to reach it cause otherwise our life would be meaningless. ( like the Muslim guy in Alchemist, who his only wish was to be a pilgrim to Mecca, and he never did it)
Or Am I thinking so typical Iranian: Just because some one can have a doctorate degree in only 2 years doesn’t mean he can’t drop every thing and work in Gap or Mc. Donald?
Comments:
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On : 8/19/2004 3:58:42 AM Ameer Hossein (www) said:
Well, there may be so many things that can cause such a dicission. I don't know what was the real reason for him to do this.
And about your comment on my site, well thanks! I don't know what is really going on either. But I thought it will be an interesting subject to talk about.
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On : 8/19/2004 3:59:24 AM hazyan (www) said:
Hi.. thanx for your comment, I will respond u about this post after comming back to iran. But, about Farsi language, i used this program in spain, it was wounderful
http://www.tavultesoft.com/keyman/
u can test it!
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On : 8/19/2004 4:02:51 AM hazyan (www) said:
http://www.tavultesoft.com/keyman/downloads/keyboards/index.php?filter=language&equals=Farsi
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On : 8/19/2004 4:24:57 AM Ameer Hossein (www) said:
baba taze sare shabe!! inja saat 2:30 AM e alan, oklahoma ham nist, californias! man harshab ta sob bidaram, to alan bayad khab bashi ke saat fek konam dorovare 5-6 sob bayad bashe oonja. A val,
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On : 8/19/2004 4:25:32 AM atash (www) said:
mmm, I beleive if he really loved what he was doing he wouldn't quite like that, thats all i'm saying.
I wish him all the best, I hope he can find his way out.
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On : 8/19/2004 4:35:12 AM Ameer Hossein (www) said:
baba man kojam bache pooldare? man jozve bi khoone hay california hastam!! alan ke ino minevisam kenare khiyaboon neshestam, kenare ye starbucks, wireless internet dare, daram azash estefade mikonam!!! ama rajebe inke az koja midoonam to koja ee, khob khodet gofti canada, va man hads zadam mesle sharghe amrika bayad 3 saat ba inja tafavote zamani dashte bashi, ye hads bood, age doros az ab daroomad, man khaili khoshshans boodam!
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On : 8/19/2004 4:43:09 AM Ameer Hossein (www) said:
baba vel kon, nesfeshabi gir dadi ha!! ma bi khabi zade be saremoon
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On : 8/19/2004 4:44:34 AM Ameer Hossein (www) said:
rajebe tabestoon ham begam, kelasam tamoom shod!! hafte dige paeez shoro mishe
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On : 8/19/2004 4:47:14 AM Ameer Hossein (www) said:
A val, comment hay man 30 ta shod!!
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On : 8/19/2004 12:43:36 PM Mola (www) said:
yes..I live in Vancouver
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On : 8/19/2004 7:57:16 PM atash (www) said:
daria jan .......
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On : 8/19/2004 11:29:05 PM daria (www) said:
aatash, man fekr mikonam aghar kasi ba kar kardan dar gap -(kaar dar gap ke khoobeh) -ya har kareh dighei, valo inke sakht bashe va az lahazeh estandardhaye (IRANI) be gadreh kafi bala nabashe, khoshal mishe, be khodesh madiooneh ke oon kar ro anjaam nadeh.
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On : 8/19/2004 11:32:37 PM daria (www) said:
man fekr mikonam ma adama az bas be zendegieh khodemoon az negaheh digaraan negah mikonim ke, yademoon mireh khodemoon ro khoshal konim.
shayad in agha, too hamoon doreye under garad mikhasteh passion esh ro too zendegi donbal koneh, vali be fekreh harf e mardom oftadeh ya madar pedaresh roosh tasir dashtan....in jomleye " what you can do with the money or knowlege is fun" az oon jomlehaye maman-babaiie!
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On : 8/19/2004 11:39:00 PM daria (www) said:
fekr konam chizi ke mikham begam ine:
baraye man shakhstan ye ensani ke passionesh ro too zendegi donbal mikoneh va nemizareh gezavat haye digaran masireh zendegisho avaz konan, ya ingadr open-minded hast ke az standard haye pish-taiin shodeye jame-e peiravi nakoneh,.... kheili BA ARZESHTAR va BARtar az kasieh ke phD dareh vali unhappy va clueless hast dar zendegi va mesleh yek GAAV donbaleh roye standard haye jame-e hast!
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On : 8/19/2004 11:39:29 PM daria (www) said:
man in doostet ro mishnasam?
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On : 8/19/2004 11:39:54 PM daria (www) said:
aghe didish begoo, u've just got a fan!
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On : 8/19/2004 11:45:53 PM daria (www) said:
fek konam I'm looking for a role model like that.
ey kaash manam mitoonestam.... fagat harf nazanam va kami shoja-tar va risktaker tar basham. .............daram roo khodam kaar mikonam khahar joon
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On : 8/20/2004 11:33:56 AM rose (www) said:
hi atash joon
look ,i belive is not wrong with him,sometimes people need to experience other things in their life to be sure the way that they have selected is the real way that they want
sometimes i like to quite mine and going and working in simple work (like mcdonald and,,,,,simple: i mean that brain is not involved just body working )so i believe is not strange for myself the way of life that i am in is the one always other recomend it to me but is it the best life style for me!!!!
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On : 8/20/2004 9:27:11 PM atash (www) said:
well, i didn't mind if he was working in stripp club.
u know, daria jan, harfet besyar jaleb bood. behem ehsase ahmaghane boodan dast dad.
mersi az comment va nazaret. it was really u. i just felt I'm sitting beside u and talk to u ro dar roo.
by the way ta gheirati nashodam nesfe harfeto pas begir
, raje be inke faneshi. e
are, meshnasish, bahahs harfa m zadim,
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On : 8/20/2004 9:28:24 PM atash (www) said:
It made me think that I should find athe lion and go to Africa.
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On : 8/21/2004 10:56:34 AM daria (www) said:
OH MY GOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
K?!!!!!! it was him?
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On : 8/21/2004 10:59:03 AM daria (www) said:
damesh garm! khosham oomad azash, pas poshteh oon soorateh jazzzab ye bacheh naneh nabood!
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On : 8/19/2004 3:58:42 AM Ameer Hossein (www) said:
Well, there may be so many things that can cause such a dicission. I don't know what was the real reason for him to do this.
And about your comment on my site, well thanks! I don't know what is really going on either. But I thought it will be an interesting subject to talk about.
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
On : 8/19/2004 3:59:24 AM hazyan (www) said:
Hi.. thanx for your comment, I will respond u about this post after comming back to iran. But, about Farsi language, i used this program in spain, it was wounderful
http://www.tavultesoft.com/keyman/
u can test it!
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
On : 8/19/2004 4:02:51 AM hazyan (www) said:
http://www.tavultesoft.com/keyman/downloads/keyboards/index.php?filter=language&equals=Farsi
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On : 8/19/2004 4:24:57 AM Ameer Hossein (www) said:
baba taze sare shabe!! inja saat 2:30 AM e alan, oklahoma ham nist, californias! man harshab ta sob bidaram, to alan bayad khab bashi ke saat fek konam dorovare 5-6 sob bayad bashe oonja. A val,
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On : 8/19/2004 4:25:32 AM atash (www) said:
mmm, I beleive if he really loved what he was doing he wouldn't quite like that, thats all i'm saying.
I wish him all the best, I hope he can find his way out.
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
On : 8/19/2004 4:35:12 AM Ameer Hossein (www) said:
baba man kojam bache pooldare? man jozve bi khoone hay california hastam!! alan ke ino minevisam kenare khiyaboon neshestam, kenare ye starbucks, wireless internet dare, daram azash estefade mikonam!!! ama rajebe inke az koja midoonam to koja ee, khob khodet gofti canada, va man hads zadam mesle sharghe amrika bayad 3 saat ba inja tafavote zamani dashte bashi, ye hads bood, age doros az ab daroomad, man khaili khoshshans boodam!
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On : 8/19/2004 4:43:09 AM Ameer Hossein (www) said:
baba vel kon, nesfeshabi gir dadi ha!! ma bi khabi zade be saremoon
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
On : 8/19/2004 4:44:34 AM Ameer Hossein (www) said:
rajebe tabestoon ham begam, kelasam tamoom shod!! hafte dige paeez shoro mishe
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
On : 8/19/2004 4:47:14 AM Ameer Hossein (www) said:
A val, comment hay man 30 ta shod!!
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
On : 8/19/2004 12:43:36 PM Mola (www) said:
yes..I live in Vancouver
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
On : 8/19/2004 7:57:16 PM atash (www) said:
daria jan .......
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
On : 8/19/2004 11:29:05 PM daria (www) said:
aatash, man fekr mikonam aghar kasi ba kar kardan dar gap -(kaar dar gap ke khoobeh) -ya har kareh dighei, valo inke sakht bashe va az lahazeh estandardhaye (IRANI) be gadreh kafi bala nabashe, khoshal mishe, be khodesh madiooneh ke oon kar ro anjaam nadeh.
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
On : 8/19/2004 11:32:37 PM daria (www) said:
man fekr mikonam ma adama az bas be zendegieh khodemoon az negaheh digaraan negah mikonim ke, yademoon mireh khodemoon ro khoshal konim.
shayad in agha, too hamoon doreye under garad mikhasteh passion esh ro too zendegi donbal koneh, vali be fekreh harf e mardom oftadeh ya madar pedaresh roosh tasir dashtan....in jomleye " what you can do with the money or knowlege is fun" az oon jomlehaye maman-babaiie!
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
On : 8/19/2004 11:39:00 PM daria (www) said:
fekr konam chizi ke mikham begam ine:
baraye man shakhstan ye ensani ke passionesh ro too zendegi donbal mikoneh va nemizareh gezavat haye digaran masireh zendegisho avaz konan, ya ingadr open-minded hast ke az standard haye pish-taiin shodeye jame-e peiravi nakoneh,.... kheili BA ARZESHTAR va BARtar az kasieh ke phD dareh vali unhappy va clueless hast dar zendegi va mesleh yek GAAV donbaleh roye standard haye jame-e hast!
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
On : 8/19/2004 11:39:29 PM daria (www) said:
man in doostet ro mishnasam?
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
On : 8/19/2004 11:39:54 PM daria (www) said:
aghe didish begoo, u've just got a fan!
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
On : 8/19/2004 11:45:53 PM daria (www) said:
fek konam I'm looking for a role model like that.
ey kaash manam mitoonestam.... fagat harf nazanam va kami shoja-tar va risktaker tar basham. .............daram roo khodam kaar mikonam khahar joon
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
On : 8/20/2004 11:33:56 AM rose (www) said:
hi atash joon
look ,i belive is not wrong with him,sometimes people need to experience other things in their life to be sure the way that they have selected is the real way that they want
sometimes i like to quite mine and going and working in simple work (like mcdonald and,,,,,simple: i mean that brain is not involved just body working )so i believe is not strange for myself the way of life that i am in is the one always other recomend it to me but is it the best life style for me!!!!
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
On : 8/20/2004 9:27:11 PM atash (www) said:
well, i didn't mind if he was working in stripp club.
u know, daria jan, harfet besyar jaleb bood. behem ehsase ahmaghane boodan dast dad.
mersi az comment va nazaret. it was really u. i just felt I'm sitting beside u and talk to u ro dar roo.
by the way ta gheirati nashodam nesfe harfeto pas begir
, raje be inke faneshi. e
are, meshnasish, bahahs harfa m zadim,
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
On : 8/20/2004 9:28:24 PM atash (www) said:
It made me think that I should find athe lion and go to Africa.
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
On : 8/21/2004 10:56:34 AM daria (www) said:
OH MY GOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
K?!!!!!! it was him?
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
On : 8/21/2004 10:59:03 AM daria (www) said:
damesh garm! khosham oomad azash, pas poshteh oon soorateh jazzzab ye bacheh naneh nabood!
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